The Uncle Who Slept Around with Over Thirty Girls and Renounced the World

When you read the title, “The Uncle Who Slept Around with Over Thirty Girls and Renounced the World,” you might immediately latch onto that number—thirty. Some of you might be envious, while others might be disdainful. But whether you admire or scorn it, there’s a lesson to be learned here. Guys who haven’t reached that number shouldn’t aim for it, and those who’ve surpassed it shouldn’t be too proud. As normal humans navigating this complex society, we should neither die in peace having slept with only one woman nor feel inferior for having slept with over a thousand.

 

Take it easy, and carry on.

 

Before I step off this historical stage, I want to share some experiences that might be worth learning from. Experiences like how to flirt with women, how to make them climax, how to make them feel trendy, and so on.

 

In my journey of sleeping around, I’ve encountered various characters: financial analysts, teachers, nurses, professional women in the power industry, and more. More than one-third of them were virgins, ranging from high school graduates to college students.

 

If given the opportunity, I’d share my chat history with them, along with screenshots of their seductive words, photos, and more. I even have a contact list of over 1500 women.

 

Page One

The Numbers Game Some people say thirty isn’t much. Indeed, it isn’t. I have a very close client who has slept with over 500 women. I’ve warned him to stop this behavior, but he says he can’t. He can no longer enter a stable relationship with any woman. In his view, no woman is reliable or worth entrusting. Even if he gets tired and wants to settle down, his body’s memories and inertia will unconsciously drive him back to his previous way of life. When the so-called family conflicts with freedom, he will opt for freedom. In battles between the sexes, there are no winners.

Quality vs. Quantity Some readers argue that quantity isn’t important; quality is. But that’s only half true. Both quantity and quality matter. Without a certain amount of experience, you can’t achieve good quality. Quantity leads to qualitative change. It’s like learning a mathematical law in school; if you only do 1-2 practice problems, you won’t truly understand it. Similarly, if a man only sleeps with 1-2 women, he can’t understand women deeply. So, just pursuing quality is nonsense. However, if you’ve experienced 30-50 women, or even hundreds or thousands, you might become empty and fearful. In my opinion, 10-20 women are enough. This number helps men lose their fantasies about the purity of women and accept that women, like themselves, are normal humans, not goddesses or saints without sexual desire.

The Myth of Looks and Money Some people say you must be either very wealthy or very handsome and charming. But I have neither. I’m just an ordinary middle-aged man. If I have any special skills, it’s that I’m good at painting a picture in the minds of girls and arousing their curiosity.

The Cost of Paid Companionship Of course, some will argue that you can find many girls if you’re willing to spend money. But that’s only half true. Men who spend money to find women are psychologically twisted and disconnected. While they enjoy the freedom that money brings, they lament that they’ve fallen to the point of needing to pay for companionship. A few days ago, an official in Japan was exposed for paying to find a woman. He apologized, saying, “How could a man like me have a young and beautiful woman? I can only make them come to me through this paid method.” That’s the biggest problem with spending money to find women. No young woman genuinely wants to be with you, and you’ll feel sad yourself.

Analyzing the Core Needs of Men

Let’s analyze the core needs of men. Why do we look for women? Is it to show off our abilities? To construct a shelter through women? To pass on the family line and inherit our throne? Many men never think about this issue in their lifetime. Some people with power and wealth look for many women just to prove that “wealthy people have many women.” Such men live in a world described by others, never for themselves.

 

In my opinion, men seek women to improve themselves, for safety and hope. The relationship between men and women is like a mirror; our hidden sides are exposed through conflicts in intimate relationships. That’s the real and fragile opportunity we see. Men need a strong support system that backs them unconditionally. Establishing relationships with women is the fastest and most reliable path. Meanwhile, children are also the hope and inheritance of men.

 

Lessons Learned

Through my experiences, I’ve learned several key lessons:

 

Understanding Women Sleeping with multiple women has helped me understand them better. Women are not monolithic; they have diverse desires, fears, and aspirations. This understanding helps in building more meaningful relationships.

Emotional Detachment While having multiple partners might seem exciting, it often leads to emotional detachment. You begin to see relationships as transactions rather than meaningful connections. This detachment can leave you feeling empty over time.

The Illusion of Freedom Many men believe that having multiple partners equates to freedom. However, this so-called freedom often becomes a prison. You’re constantly searching for the next conquest, never satisfied, always craving more. True freedom comes from meaningful connections and self-acceptance.

The Value of Stability There’s a unique value in stable, long-term relationships. These relationships offer emotional support, companionship, and a sense of belonging. While the thrill of new conquests fades quickly, the comfort of a stable relationship endures.

Self-Improvement The pursuit of multiple partners can be a way to mask insecurities. Instead of seeking validation through the number of partners, focus on self-improvement. Build your confidence, skills, and emotional intelligence. This approach leads to more fulfilling relationships and personal growth.

 

Sleeping around with over thirty girls has been a journey filled with lessons. While it might seem glamorous to some, it comes with its own set of challenges and realizations. The key takeaway is to find a balance. Understand that both quantity and quality matter, but neither should define your self-worth. Seek meaningful connections, focus on self-improvement, and remember that true freedom and fulfillment come from within.

 

As I renounce this lifestyle and step away from the historical stage, I hope my experiences offer some insights. Whether you’re just starting out or have already surpassed that number, take a moment to reflect on your journey. Ultimately, the goal is to find happiness and fulfillment, not just in the number of partners, but in the quality of your relationships and your growth as an individual.

 

Take it easy, and carry on.

 

Part 2

Between 2016 and 2018, I found myself in a rather unique situation. About ten young women, ranging from 17 to 23 years old, reached out to me for guidance on their first sexual experiences. This was during a time when the concept of “Uncle complex” was trending online. These women came from various social networking apps, games, Quora, and some forums. It was an eye-opening experience.

 

Over a broader span, from 2003 to 2023, I interacted with more than twenty other women. Some of these connections happened during my learning phases, others at work, and even as recently as last year, women were still adding me on WhatsApp through different groups.

 

In 2019, things took a more professional turn when a female-dominated app’s operations manager contacted me. She asked if I could open a column on their platform to explain knowledge and skills related to female orgasm. Over the next two to three years, an astounding 3,500 to 4,000 women added my contact information. After various screenings, I still had 1,598 women in my contacts. This experience gave me a deep dive into the dynamics of modern relationships and female sexuality.

 

The Misconceptions Men Face

Many men struggle to find meaningful connections with women, largely due to societal misconceptions. Society often tells men that they need to succeed, make money, and only then will they be able to attract women. This is a false proposition. Even if you succeed and work hard, women who don’t like you won’t suddenly change their minds. Think about famous celebrities whose partners still cheat or leave them—that’s the best evidence.

 

This doesn’t mean men shouldn’t strive for success. Effort is essential to understand one’s limits and potential. But power and money alone can’t make a woman genuinely follow or love you. Relationships are built on much more than financial success or social status.

 

Female Ejaculation: Myths and Realities

Some readers have commented that female ejaculation depends solely on the woman. However, this is a misconception. The ability for a woman to ejaculate involves factors like psychological comfort, physiological readiness, environmental conditions, and a sense of security—all areas where men can play a crucial role.

 

Don’t be misled by what you see in porn videos. Female ejaculation in porn is often exaggerated for visual effect, using water or other liquids. In real life, female ejaculation rarely resembles a fountain. Understanding this can help men approach sexual intimacy with more realistic expectations and a focus on mutual satisfaction.

 

The Changing Dynamics of Relationships

Contemporary society presents significant challenges for ordinary men, especially young men. Back in the day, a woman would typically marry a man of similar age who had some special skills among the men she knew. From around 1998 to 2008, honest men, skilled craftsmen, hardworking guys, and even those who could hold their ground in a fight could find women who liked them enough to marry. But now? Men need more resources and must also become emotional experts, conflict resolution specialists, comedians, caregivers, and sometimes even pretend to be very masculine.

 

Under these conditions, even Transformers might want to escape back to Cybertron. Earth seems too dangerous and difficult to survive.

 

Shared Challenges for Men and Women

Women face many of the same difficulties as men. Historically, men have provided minimal assistance to women in raising the next generation, often thinking that solving economic problems was enough. However, many issues require more than just financial solutions.

 

This is an objective reality shaped by societal and temporal factors, directly affecting both men and women. Everyone is innocent in this, and no one has it easier than anyone else.

 

A Call for Better Understanding

With these thoughts in mind, I want to share my insights with readers. For instance, most women don’t just love money; they value a man’s ability to earn it. Most women aren’t promiscuous; they seek equality.

 

Furthermore, the way men are educated often leads them to subconsciously never regard women as equals. This culture is toxic and damages both genders. In constructing this culture, both men and women are victims.

 

If we can view the opposite gender with a calm mind and understand that they share the same passions, emotions, and desires as us, we might find a path to better relationships. Understanding that women love sex just as much as men can change everything.

 

Modern relationships are complex and challenging, but with empathy and better understanding, we can navigate these difficulties and build stronger, more meaningful connections.

 

Part 3

 

In the complex void of human sexual behavior, “desire” and “being desired” are woven into an intricate network of emotions and needs. The most important thing to understand is that sexual desire isn’t exclusive to men. Women, too, harbor strong sexual desires, and they’re not always shy or conservative about them.

 

Believe it or not, it is an absolute fact that women’s sexual desire is as strong as men’s. This may come as a surprise to many, but it’s a fundamental truth of human nature.

 

Take a moment to consider the size of male genitalia in humans. It’s larger than many might expect, especially when compared to other primates. For instance, the reproductive organs of the massive mountain gorilla are surprisingly small. Even smaller chimpanzees have genitalia twice the size of gorillas. But human genitalia surpasses even that of chimpanzees. Among all primates, humans have the largest genitalia. If reproduction were the sole purpose, such large reproductive organs wouldn’t be necessary. The evolution of the human reproductive system to such proportions indicates that providing sexual satisfaction plays a significant role.

 

Unlike other animals, human women seem to be in a state of readiness to mate at almost all times. This trait is incredibly beneficial for the continuation of the species. Humans engage in sexual activity long after they are capable of conceiving, suggesting that the pursuit of physiological pleasure has become more dominant than reproduction itself. The strong sexual desire of women is actually a part of human animal nature.

 

During ovulation, women may be more inclined to choose sexual partners with a more masculine appearance. Conversely, during non-ovulation periods, men with milder features are often preferred. This means that no matter what kind of man you are, you have the opportunity to connect with women. Women, like men, pursue diversity when choosing partners.

 

Most women think about sex every day and crave to meet the right man to satisfy their rich and wonderful sexual fantasies, sometimes even indulging in thoughts that may seem shameful. As someone reading this article, you might wonder, if women are so eager, why haven’t I encountered them?

 

The answer lies in a couple of key points:

 

Firstly, you may not be giving women enough sense of security. All cultures tend to promote the idea that only “sluts” are passionate about sex and enjoy wild, animalistic encounters. A woman who openly expresses her sexual desires risks damaging her reputation and potentially ruining her life. If a man frequently boasts about his sexual conquests, shares intimate videos, or speaks poorly of his ex-girlfriends, it signals to women that he doesn’t value them. Consequently, no woman would want to engage in a relationship with such a man.

 

Secondly, women fear rejection. This fear amplifies their already strong sense of shame. Rejection doesn’t necessarily mean refusing to have sex; it can also mean dismissing her deeper exploration of sexuality. For instance, if you’re having fun with a woman in bed and suddenly ask, “Have you done this with other men before?” or “How many guys did you practice on to get so good at oral sex?” such questions are incredibly hurtful. A man who asks these questions doesn’t deserve the sexual life he desires.

 

Due to these two factors, women often communicate their sexual thoughts in a secret language they feel is safe and confidential. Unfortunately, most men can’t decode this language physiologically or logically.

 

Once you can decipher this code and find the method to crack it, you’ll discover that women are very willing to explore extraordinary sexual experiences with you.

 

In the complex web of human sexuality, understanding and empathy are crucial. Recognize that women have the same passions, emotions, and desires as men. They want to feel secure and respected. They want to explore their sexuality without fear of judgment or rejection.

 

So, if you want to build a meaningful sexual relationship, focus on creating a safe, non-judgmental space. Be attentive and respectful. Understand that women, like men, are driven by a desire for connection and pleasure. When you approach relationships with this mindset, you’ll find that the barriers to intimacy and desire start to dissolve.

 

Human sexual behavior is intricate and filled with nuances. By understanding and respecting the desires of both genders, we can foster deeper connections and more fulfilling relationships. Remember, sexual desire isn’t just about physical attraction; it’s about emotional connection, mutual respect, and shared experiences. Embrace these principles, and you’ll find that your relationships become richer and more satisfying.

 

Part 4

Archaeologists have unearthed fascinating written records from the Maya culture that offer intriguing insights into relationships. They suggest that if a man treats a woman well and seriously, he can win her favor. In turn, she will treat his loved ones well and support his elderly family members. This ancient wisdom highlights a timeless truth: the importance of respect and care in relationships.

 

If a man finds himself unfavored by women, it’s a call for introspection. Instead of blaming external factors, he should look within to identify and address potential issues. Self-improvement is key to building and maintaining healthy relationships.

 

The Role of Extraordinary Experiences

The records also reveal that when women feel they cannot have an “extraordinary sexual experience” with a man, they will often demand more resources as compensation. This isn’t just about material wealth but encompasses emotional support, time, and effort. Essentially, women seek a balanced exchange in relationships where their needs, both physical and emotional, are met.

 

However, the pursuit of grand weddings and extravagant displays can be misleading. While such gestures might win temporary favor, they do not guarantee loyalty or satisfaction. Women can, and sometimes do, seek fulfillment elsewhere if their deeper needs remain unmet.

 

Throughout history, many women have demonstrated through their actions that they would rather leave this world than live without joy and fulfillment. This pattern underscores the importance of understanding and meeting the emotional and physical needs of women in relationships.

 

When some men lament that there are no good women left, they overlook a crucial lesson from history. Understanding the actions and motivations of women can provide significant opportunities for meaningful relationships, even for ordinary men.

 

A recurring theme in history is that behind every successful man, there is often a supportive woman. Her family connections and resources can play a vital role in his achievements. This dynamic underscores the value of partnership and mutual support in achieving great success.

 

Believing one can achieve success entirely on their own is often a misguided notion. Historical and contemporary examples show that leveraging relationships and networks is a more effective path to success. Men should recognize the importance of building and nurturing meaningful relationships rather than attempting to go it alone.

 

A Reader’s Response: A Misguided Viewpoint

One reader once shared a rather misguided viewpoint, claiming that in today’s society, sleeping with about 30 women is not too difficult. He boasted about having slept with almost 40 women and believed that with money and power, sleeping with over 100 women should be simple. This perspective is toxic and overlooks a fundamental truth about human relationships.

 

According to this reader, women’s resistance to money is overestimated. But this view is deeply flawed. It implies that no woman is worth a man’s constant effort or sacrifice, which is far from the truth. Genuine relationships are built on mutual respect, understanding, and effort, not merely financial transactions.

 

To illustrate this point, consider the analogy of a slave taking a handful of dog food from his master’s house. Dogs might surround him, including the master’s own dog, wagging their tails. But do the dogs come because they like the slave, or because they want the food? If one day the food runs out, the dogs will disappear. The slave’s happiness is based on a false premise; he is merely a temporary provider of food in the eyes of the dogs.

 

This analogy applies to men who believe that money alone can sustain relationships. Such relationships are superficial and will not withstand the absence of material wealth. True connection and loyalty come from deeper bonds and shared values.

 

Hope and Change

There is a poignant historical example of a female slave who, despite her circumstances, asked her husband to have a child. The man questioned why they should bring a child into a life of suffering and slavery. The woman, however, believed that while they could not change their fate, their child might have a chance for a better life. This hope and belief in the future led to their child achieving great success, being recognized and elevated by the slave owner.

 

No matter our current state, maintaining hope and striving for improvement can lead to significant changes. By competing and persevering, we can create better futures for ourselves and our descendants.

 

The pyramids stand, though the kings are gone.

Part 5

Someone might ask, “Why don’t you just tell me how to do it?”

 

Winning an award might boil down to a few simple sentences, but if we don’t clear harmful thoughts from everyone’s minds, talking about it for half a month will be like casting pearls before swine.

 

Moreover, any practical action comes with costs. These costs usually refer to time and money. When we learn a skill, the person teaching us usually gets compensated based on the learner’s situation. If the learner’s family appears wealthy, they might pay more. If the learner is poor but sincere, they might practice for a few more years and gradually learn the skills. It’s a well-known fact that money is used to save time. A worker’s child might need 3-5 years of basic training. But children from wealthy families can solve their work problems quicker with generous rewards.

 

As ordinary people, many are unwilling to spend time and money, thinking that the “most attractive package” on the Internet is right in front of them. Don’t be foolish; those are all deceptions. It’s the fate of being deceived, without exception.

 

Before the Industrial Revolution, society needed a lot of men. Men were the main force and needed to dedicate and sacrifice themselves. So, the ruling class and society granted men some privileges as compensation. Nowadays, a machine can replace hundreds or even thousands of male laborers, and a woman can easily attract excellent men through beauty. This is why men are becoming increasingly distressed. Simply put, the world and society no longer need so many ordinary men.

 

In the post-industrial era, what’s needed are top-notch men and a lot of women. Ordinary men are often seen as troublemakers or a burden on society. With the rise of artificial intelligence, even ordinary men will lose the chance to reproduce normally. Most men are already feeling desperate. Only by clearing the toxins stored in your brain can you have the opportunity for rebirth and shape a new life.

 

Just like a football team, to become top-tier, it must abandon all bad traditions, start from scratch, learn higher-level ideas and tactics, and become strong. Always remind yourself that when this era intends to eliminate you, it won’t give you any hints. If you practice the methods mentioned above, one day you might find it all in vain.

 

If a woman doesn’t treat you sincerely, being rich like Musk is just a facade. If a woman secretly tells your child that you don’t love them, your life can be completely destroyed. Look at stories and news from history or modern times. Many people’s wealth becomes someone else’s once they leave this world. Many, before leaving this world, are already as angry as private women. How many people, when faced with difficulties, find their women running to someone else’s bed?

 

You might refuse to get married and have children as society hopes, and your entire life will end up as someone else’s wealth. Women have already united. They’re challenging men together. Men are still belittling and mocking each other, and if this continues, most men will be crushed and disappear into the dust.

 

Let’s dive deeper into the societal shift that’s causing such turmoil. The truth is, the landscape of labor and social roles has changed drastically. In the past, physical strength and endurance were paramount. Men were needed for the hard labor that drove economies. But with technological advancements, machines and automation have taken over those roles. What used to require a hundred men can now be done by a single machine. This shift has left many men feeling obsolete and undervalued.

 

Women, on the other hand, have found new avenues to excel. With advancements in gender equality and women’s rights, they have more opportunities than ever before. Beauty and charm have always been powerful tools, but now women also have education and professional opportunities that were once denied to them. This combination makes them highly competitive in the modern world.

 

The rise of artificial intelligence is another nail in the coffin for traditional male roles. A.I. can perform tasks that once required human intervention, reducing the need for a large, unskilled male workforce. This technological evolution means that ordinary men must evolve too. They need to acquire new skills, adapt to new roles, and find ways to stay relevant in an ever-changing world.

 

The desperation many men feel is real. It stems from a sense of being left behind, of not being needed. But the solution isn’t to dwell on what’s lost. Instead, it’s about finding new paths and opportunities. It’s about clearing out the mental toxins that hold you back and embracing a mindset of growth and adaptation.

 

Think of it like a sports team. To become a top-tier team, you have to abandon old, ineffective habits. You need to learn new strategies, adopt innovative tactics, and continually strive for improvement. The same applies to individuals. If you cling to outdated methods and mindsets, you’ll get left behind.

 

This era won’t give you any hints that it’s moving on without you. It’s subtle but relentless. One day you might wake up and realize that everything you’ve been doing is in vain. It’s crucial to stay ahead of the curve, to keep learning, adapting, and growing.

 

If a woman doesn’t treat you with sincerity, all the wealth in the world won’t make you truly happy. True fulfillment comes from genuine relationships and personal growth. History is filled with stories of people whose wealth was squandered by others after they passed away. There are countless tales of individuals who faced betrayal and hardship, only to see their loved ones turn away in their time of need.

 

Women have already united in their cause. They support each other and challenge societal norms together. Men, however, often tear each other down. This divisiveness weakens them and makes it easier for them to be pushed aside. If this trend continues, many men will find themselves marginalized and forgotten.

 

Wake up, real men.

Part 6

A reader asked an intriguing question: “Why did this legendary figure stop his great career? Is he tired? Has he met someone special in his life?”

 

Before diving into that, let’s first think about why men keep searching for women. Beyond the thrill that comes from being with different women, what other motivations drive men to take such risks?

 

In reality, a lot of women can be pretty boring in bed. Even those who look incredibly seductive can leave you feeling strangely disappointed when you finally see them naked. If you’ve experienced this, you know exactly what I mean. And when you truly conquer a woman, a feeling of emptiness often follows.

 

So, why do men keep chasing new women? It’s not just about physical pleasure, passing on genes, or seeking validation. There’s also a deep desire to find that one special woman. Maybe she isn’t the most dazzling person you’ve ever met, but when you’re with her, you can let down all your defenses. She might not be as compliant as you’d imagine, but you get a lot of energy from her—the kind that helps you grow and improve.

 

When we step into this complex and colorful society, we build layers of masks and armor to protect our fragile hearts. These measures safeguard us but also become burdens we can’t easily shed. For example, we yearn for a woman who loves us for who we truly are, not for our money or power. We desire a woman who only deeply loves our Dick

 

Because money and power do not belong to us, we are just temporary custodians of money and power, but our Dick will always belong to us.

 

Those women who accept and love our Dick are those who love our essence, but unfortunately, these essences are not accepted and recognized by society.

 

So, having Dick doesn’t mean we are all true men. Society and various cultures tell us that to become a man, we must win, be strong, and defeat everyone.

 

We always quietly ask ourselves one late night, why do we have to win, why do we have to be strong? Who do we need to defeat? What if we achieve it?

 

Sooner or later, someone else will come along, win, become powerful, and defeat us. What will we have then? An aging body, perhaps no longer able to perform as it once did. In this endless cycle, no man can feel truly secure, and no man can allow himself to be vulnerable.

 

What we’re really searching for is a woman who lets us be vulnerable and accepts our fragility. When we’re in her arms, we can feel the value and meaning of our existence in the world. Our existence is valuable in itself, not because of what we achieve. It’s similar to being in our mother’s arms, where just being alive is enough to earn her love and affection.

 

When you find this woman, you stop searching. You close your eyes, communicate with her soul, touch her, and truly feel her presence. It’s a feeling of completeness, of being understood and accepted for who you are.

 

This is the real reason why men eventually stop searching for more women. They find someone who makes them feel whole, someone who lets them be themselves without any pretense. This feeling of being truly loved and accepted is irreplaceable. It’s not about conquering more women or proving one’s worth through endless victories. It’s about finding that one person who makes everything else seem insignificant.

 

You will feel that her presence is really wonderful.

 

This is the fundamental reason why I don’t want to search for more women. I also hope that those of you who have read this article can meet her earlier and that day will come sooner.

Part 7

Men have never really conquered women; it’s women who let men think they have. Men’s little skills are entirely under women’s control. Only when a woman allows a man to do something does he get the chance to do it.

 

Honesty is the most cost-effective approach. Any excuses or pretenses just increase your costs and drain your energy and money.

 

If I want to roll in bed with a woman, I simply tell her, “There’s a magic in you I’ve never seen before. It stirs my animalistic nature. I want to help you experience the comfort that morality and ethics impose on you and completely liberate you. I want to fully appreciate the way you cheer on me; it will be beautiful and charming.”

 

Instead of saying, “Let’s have dinner tonight. I wouldn’t hurt you or eat you.”

 

The latter shows weakness and lack of confidence. It makes women think you’re an idiot.

 

Only the weak plead. The wisdom of the strong tells women, “We’re going to play an interesting game together, something you’ve never played before and something you long for deep down. Only I can give you this opportunity. You don’t have to worry about being humiliated or judged because I am a true man, a man who respects women, a man who lets women indulge.”

 

This isn’t about money or power; it’s about your essence.

 

Tip 1: Many men feel that important aspects of their lives aren’t real. They feel they must play a role rather than be their true selves.

 

Tip 2: Many men feel incredibly lonely even if they have friends, wives, and children. This is because they can’t share their inner fragility and truth.

 

Tip 3: Many men feel their lives lack depth and purpose. They may feel bored and empty about their work, their entertainment, and even their family life.

 

No matter how old or experienced you are, you’ll always find a hint of these feelings in your life.

 

When we were very young, as boys, we understood we couldn’t be like our mothers because they could have babies, and we couldn’t.

 

For thousands of years, society has taken boys from their mothers at a very young age to train them into men.

 

Although this model no longer exists in modern society, the process of going to school and studying isn’t fundamentally different from the Spartans in “300: Rise of an Empire.”

 

If boys fail to become men, they’ll be abandoned by their peers and society, this cruel society.

 

That feeling of life being worse than death is why the ugly character in “300: Rise of an Empire” leaked secrets to the Persians. He wanted to retaliate against those who refused to accept him.

 

When I was young, I thought the whistleblower was shameless. Now I understand the pain he felt. It can only be understood.

 

For example, I didn’t perform well in a competition, and my father heavily criticized me. It made me feel terrible for a long time. I swallowed my pride and eventually achieved good results. But when I shared the good news with my father, he said, “Isn’t this what you deserve? What’s so exciting about this? Without my criticism, would you have achieved such good results?”

 

His words felt like a dagger in my heart. To him, my efforts seemed insignificant. It was as if without his mockery and criticism, I wouldn’t have succeeded.

 

I haven’t spent much time with my father, about 10 years. In that decade, I’ve never heard any words of love or praise from him. Recalling these past events isn’t about blaming our fathers; they were just doing what they experienced. But the wounds from such negligence are deep and hard to heal.

 

Every man, around the age of 7-8, is driven out of his mother’s intimate relationship without the chance to establish a similar bond with his father. Moreover, men are guided by attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors detrimental to intimate relationships.

 

Ruthless, cruel, sinister, cunning, and cold-blooded. For the sake of so-called success, using all possible methods has become the only way.

 

All of this can be attributed to fucking unfair competition.

Part 8

Most of our education and training go against female traits, leading to a habit of not valuing women. This ingrained behavior starts early and is reinforced throughout our lives, shaping how we perceive and interact with women. It’s a subtle but pervasive issue that affects our relationships deeply.

 

Even if we love a woman and want to be kind, fair, and respectful, years of habit and inertia push us in the opposite direction. The societal conditioning is so strong that it often overrides our conscious intentions. We find ourselves acting in ways that are contrary to our values, driven by subconscious biases and stereotypes that have been ingrained in us over time.

 

Our subconscious tells us that women are emotional and irrational and that they’ll never approach things like men. This stereotype is harmful and untrue, but it’s a common belief that many men hold, often without even realizing it. These subconscious beliefs influence our actions and attitudes, creating barriers to genuine understanding and equality in our relationships.

 

To establish our masculine traits and break free from motherhood and femininity, there’s a fear of being dominated by women again. This fear is rooted in outdated notions of gender roles and power dynamics. Men are taught to see independence and dominance as essential components of masculinity, and any deviation from this norm is seen as a threat to their identity.

 

No man wants to be called a henpecked husband, as it implies he’s not man enough to control the woman in his household. This societal pressure to conform to traditional gender roles can be overwhelming. It often results in men, despite their love for their partners, being unable to treat women as equals. They fear judgment and ridicule, leading them to assert control in ways that are detrimental to their relationships.

 

This inability to take women seriously can cause friction in relationships and negatively impact sexual relationships. When men don’t see women as equals, it creates a power imbalance that can lead to resentment and dissatisfaction. Women feel undervalued and disrespected, while men struggle with the disconnect between their actions and their intentions.

 

Society hasn’t taught men how to interact with women, maintain independence and freedom in relationships, and treat women equally. This lack of education is a significant barrier to healthy, fulfilling relationships. Men are often left to navigate these complex dynamics on their own, without the tools or guidance they need to succeed. This is why men face difficulties in intimate relationships today.

 

I remember a young man asking me why the girls he knows think he doesn’t seem like a real man. This question highlights the confusion and frustration that many men feel. They’re trying to reconcile their desires for meaningful connections with societal expectations that often seem contradictory.

 

I told him that when you see her as just a woman, your subconscious drives you to please her for sex. When you no longer see her as just a woman, you become more like a man. This advice may seem counterintuitive, but it speaks to the need for men to move beyond superficial interactions and develop deeper, more genuine connections. When men see women as whole individuals, rather than objects of desire, they can form more meaningful and fulfilling relationships.

 

He didn’t seem to understand. This lack of understanding is common and points to the need for better education and awareness around these issues. Men need to be taught how to navigate these dynamics in a way that is respectful and equitable.

 

The purpose of chatting, interacting, and dating women isn’t to get married but to have fun. This perspective shift can be liberating for many men. It removes the pressure to conform to traditional expectations and allows men to engage with women in a more relaxed and genuine way.

 

Having fun doesn’t mean playing with women. It means making women feel free, relaxed, and without moral pressure or judgment when they’re with you. This approach fosters trust and mutual respect, creating a foundation for healthy and fulfilling relationships.

 

If you observe closely, some men naturally attract women. They’re like fish born to swim, moving freely in the ocean of women. These men have an ease and confidence that comes from genuine self-assurance and respect for others.

 

They attract women because they’re happy and relaxed around them. This natural charm is not about manipulation or games but about being comfortable in their own skin and treating women as equals.

 

This is the key to their success in relationships. It’s not about following a specific formula but about developing a genuine connection based on mutual respect and understanding.

 

Most men don’t have the ability to communicate with the opposite sex or don’t want to make women feel happy with them. This is a fact, whether you accept it or not. This lack of communication skills is a significant barrier to successful relationships.

 

Many men, when they’re young and trying to date, get rejected a few times and then turn to more extreme measures. They become disillusioned and frustrated, often resorting to unhealthy behaviors in an attempt to assert their masculinity.

 

They think, “If I had money and power, what kind of woman wouldn’t I get?” This belief is reinforced by societal messages that equate success with wealth and power, further entrenching harmful stereotypes and behaviors.

 

Society reinforces this idea, and many women chase power and money. This dynamic creates a vicious cycle where genuine connection and mutual respect are overshadowed by superficial measures of success.

 

Regardless of whether this idea is right, it’s almost impossible for ordinary men. The pursuit of wealth and power as a means to attract women is not only unrealistic for most men but also fundamentally flawed. It reduces relationships to transactions and undermines the potential for genuine connection.

 

In fact, if men understand women’s psychology and emotions, anyone can develop a relationship with women. This understanding is the key to successful relationships. It’s about empathy, respect, and genuine connection.

 

But more importantly, you need to decide to take action. Once you have this determination, anything is possible. Passive longing and fantasy are not enough. Men need to actively work on developing their communication skills and understanding of women’s experiences.

 

Just sitting there, fantasizing about “I hope something good happens” or “having interesting stories with a girl” won’t achieve any goals. Success in relationships requires effort, self-awareness, and a willingness to grow and change.

 

Part 9

A beautiful woman won’t just walk up to you out of nowhere, expressing her love. There won’t be an 18-year-old girl who voluntarily takes off her underwear and sincerely invites you to have sex. So, before you take any action, say loudly to yourself, “I want to get to know her” and “I want to establish a sexual relationship with her through communication.”

 

Repeatedly confirming your determination is the start of everything.

 

But don’t act blindly. If you keep trying without results, the frustration can be overwhelming. A depressed man wouldn’t even like stray dogs on the street.

 

Whether you’re looking for an emotional connection or a casual relationship, the key is to make women interested in you.

 

Your goal isn’t just to make her have a good impression of you. More importantly, you want to arouse her interest and get her thinking about developing a relationship with you.

 

We all know the importance of first impressions, but few realize how crucial the first sentence is. If your first sentence hits a woman’s sensitive spot, it gives you a 90% chance of success. Some might say they want to meet a woman to marry her, not just for sex. To those readers, I say, “Good luck.”

 

If you haven’t had sex before, how can you think about the serious commitment of marriage?

 

Alright, try to choose a suitable opening line from the following:

 

(1) Hello, may I get to know you?

(2) Hello

(3) Hi there, can we chat?

(4) (Send a smiling emoji)

(5) Do you want to see my thick and robust dick?

 

These five common opening lines are what most women tell me they encounter. Honestly, these are not interesting for women to respond to because they get hundreds of similar messages every day.

 

If you don’t believe it, download a social app and pretend to be a young, beautiful woman. See if you’d be interested in replying to these men.

 

So, what should the right opening line look like?

 

First, before you say anything, browse through her posts, pictures, and other information. Look at her daily life photos, work photos, landscape photos, and descriptions of her feelings and emotions.

 

Find what stands out to you, but don’t focus on her body or sexiness. While sexiness can be a normal compliment among acquaintances, it’s inappropriate at the start.

 

Carefully observe every photo.

 

For example, one woman had a very slender neck that she often showcased in photos. Every angle highlighted her neck’s curves and beauty. When greeting her, focus on this theme.

 

For example, say, “When I saw you, I was reminded of John Keats’ Ode to the Nightingale: ‘Her throw was bare.’, and so it was that I Saw the white wonder of her skin. If you could join me for a walk today, I’d dedicate all my respect to John Keats. His poetry shines into reality, letting me see you both in poetry and in life.”

 

This opening line has three benefits. First, you highlight what she’s proud of, making her feel understood. Second, you lay the groundwork for meeting her in person, regardless of when she agrees. Third, you differentiate yourself from other men on the app. Remember, getting her to agree to meet is the first step to success.

Part 10

Today I would like to give you another example. For example, there is a beautiful woman whose eyes are downcast, which makes people look gentle and has an elegant beauty when closed. So if I were to greet her, I would say: ‘Has anyone ever told you that your eyes look like the new moon and reveal the beauty of the moon? If no one has ever said that, then I’m very lucky. When will you be free? Let’s go for a walk together under the moon, you admire the moon, and I’ll close the beauty.’

 

When you see this, in combination with the content of the previous part, do you have a sense of how to start your conversation?

 

Yes, whether online, in real life or at work, you need to learn to recognize what makes this woman different from others, praise her and use a point as a topic to start a conversation. That way, the topic can easily unfold between you.

 

We can consciously practice looking at some photos of girls on social media and observing their characteristics. Think carefully about how you should formulate the first sentence. Yes, we need this kind of practice.

 

Many people may not participate in such practice. You may scoff at such works. But if you don’t make an effort, why do you think you can show your charm naturally when dealing with girls? Just like learning a skill, it takes a lot of practice and training. If you want to sleep around with lots of beautiful girls, would you just Lying lazily on the sofa wait for a Lindsay Ellingson to suddenly come out of the fridge? Of course, if this could happen, then you’re dreaming.

 

Or would you, after achieving success and fame, wait for a woman to embrace you like lie quietly in your bed waiting for you seductively?

 

As you strive for success, there may come a day when you can’t even achieve an erection. What’s more frightening is that by then, you might start to resent the women you’ve been with. I remember a line from a movie where the male lead cursed the woman, saying, “If I go to the supermarket to buy a pack of cigarettes, I can meet nine men who’ve slept with her.”

 

In such a scenario, men often vent their inner dissatisfaction and anger. Emotional people can’t truly enjoy the pleasure of sex, let alone the healing it can bring.

 

Why do we always emphasize the importance of ordinary people? Because being ordinary is our essence. If you can’t accept this, you’ll fall into the trap of overvaluing talent.

 

We’re all ordinary people—what’s there to be ashamed of? In the vast universe and throughout history, it’s a fortune to be ordinary.

 

Many people chase after a fantasy, thinking that success or wealth will automatically make them more attractive or fulfilled. But look around—a lot of those folks end up feeling isolated or dissatisfied. They might achieve their goals, but they miss out on the simple joys of life. They become like that guy in the movie who resents the woman because she’s been with other men. It’s a toxic mindset that only breeds bitterness.

 

So, what’s the solution? It’s about finding balance and appreciating what’s in front of you. Don’t underestimate the power of a sincere compliment or a heartfelt conversation. These moments of genuine interaction can be far more rewarding than any superficial achievement.

 

And don’t forget, practice makes perfect. Just like you wouldn’t expect to be a pro athlete without training, you can’t expect to connect with people without putting in the effort. It might feel awkward or forced at first, but over time, it becomes second nature. The more you engage with others, the better you get at it.

 

It’s not about impressing others with grand gestures or flashy words. It’s about being present, listening, and showing that you care. When you approach interactions with this mindset, you’ll find that people are drawn to your authenticity. They’ll appreciate you for who you are, not for who you’re pretending to be.